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Category Archives: Bisexuality
My Corpse Will Not Be Your Movement’s Foundation
Originally posted on An Odd Rey:
Coming into an all day Bi+ Institute, where seconds before people in the room had been talking about how the Bi+ community, how the terms, bi,bisexual, and biromantic had at times saved…
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Now in private practice
Howdy! I’ve just opened my own private psychotherapy practice here in Saint Cloud, MN. Details are available on Psychology Today as well as a bunch of other places online, including my website. Here’s some information. Queer focused — bi, trans, … Continue reading
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Guest Post: How to Find a Bi Competent Therapist by Estraven Le Guin
Originally posted on An Odd Rey:
“One US study found that over a quarter of therapists seen by bisexual clients erroneously assumed that sexual identity was relevant to the goal of therapy when the client didn’t agree, and around a sixth saw bisexuality as being part of an…
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All Of Me
Dan Savage tells me that I’m straight because I’m a cismale in a long term monogamous relationship with a ciswoman. It doesn’t matter to him that we met because we were interested in the same man, or that I had … Continue reading
Gay, Lesbian, ________ and Transgender
This will be brief. People need to belong. Abraham Maslow’s heirarchy of needs describes how people are able to get their needs met. First is survival. If you don’t have food and water, or other things you require to keep … Continue reading
Bisexual Erasure in Academic Research 1
Last week I got my copy of the Journal of LGBT Issues in Counseling, Volume 8, Issues 1-4, 2014. For those who don’t know how these things work, this is the peer-reviewed academic journal of ALGBTIC, which is the queer-focused … Continue reading
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Tagged bisexual, bisexual erasure, bisexuality, CALLOUS DISREGARD, sexual orientation identity
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The Big One, or, How Many Times Do I Have To Say This?
This is the big one. This is the misconception about bisexuality that is used every day to harm us. For the most part I have gotten away from the kind of “mythbusting” that basically every bisexual activist starts out by … Continue reading
