This is a must-read, possibly the best explanation of the reasons for the push-and-pull of identity labels within the non-monosexual community, the reasons why bisexual is NOT a dirty anti-trans* word, and a call for unity.
Wish I’d written it. But since I didn’t, all I can do is link to it, and quote-mine it in future articles.
Seriously, this is destined to become one of those foundational texts, an article that if you have not read, you won’t be able to have a real discussion of these topics.
EDIT: I was so excited I forgot to include the link, heh